My Mom passed on June 28th. It was very unexpected and I still feel like it was someone else. I was with her in the hospital while she took her last breath. I held her hand the whole way home and It still seems lime a bad dream. I miss her so much, I just want to hear her voice and have 1 more talk over coffee, or just 1 more laugh. Everyone tells me that it gets easier day by day but it doesn't. The pain is still there, I just find different ways of dealing with it. My 4 kids keep me busy most of the time, but mornings seem to be the hardest. I did have her cremated, per her request, so I find myself talking to her remains quiet frequently. I know she is here with me, I feel her presence. I'm not sure how many other people believe in the afterlife but I do & I truly believe that if there is anyway she can be by my side, she will. God Bless anyone who has lost a parent, we all know this day will come eventually but it doesn't make things any easier..

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I just lost my dad and my best friend on July 20 and I don't know what to do. I am litterly going crazy. I don't want to eat drink sleep or do anything. The one and only thing that I want is to be reunited with my dad. I never got to say goodbye 😭. Before he died it was 13 months since I saw my dad last.

I lost my mom July 9th. It has been a little over a month and dealing with her passing just seems to be getting worse-not better. When my mom died, I lost my best friend, confidant, therapist, sounding-board...my everything. I feel so lost. I just want to talk to her one more time. Hear her laugh. See her smile. Hug her. Tell her I love her and I need her. My heart goes out to all of you. The pain is unbearable.


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